And I just can’t get through it.
It hurts that much. And I can’t even imagine how they must have been feeling to make that choice, only how much their loved ones suffer for the loss of them.
Today I was thinking about it more and decided that I would just have to post whatever I had as soon as possible – the fundraising team I’m on has a deadline – tomorrow night, Saturday the 14th at midnight.
So better a possibly crappy post asking you to donate to the cause of suicide prevention than none at all, right?
There are so many misconceptions of suicide, some I’ve had myself. Time and empathy has taught me different lessons.
Depression is an illness – not, as some believe, a weakness of character.
Left untreated, depression can lead to suicide. It is a medical condition – like a broken leg. If you or someone you know had a broken leg, it’s unthinkable for most of us in the US to think any other alternative to fixing their leg was right, regardless of the circumstances under which the leg was injured.
It’s statistically likely that you know someone, right now, whose brain is “broken”- they are depressed, as one in ten Americans are at any given time. And a hurtful irony of the illness is that one or many of the symptoms prevents them from either realizing they are sick, or being able to get help.
One of the possible end results is being desperate for an end to that pain or emptiness, and suicide is one thing some depressed people look to as a solution.
But it doesn’t have to be that way.
Suicide is preventable. And it will be more preventable if more of those who are depressed can find readily available help. You can be a part of that solution. You can, as my colleague Shelly so eloquently put it, save a life.
How You Can Help
Help #TeamJacob raise money to help prevent suicide, through the provision of an additional lifeline for those afflicted by depression. Here’s how: click here and give to The Kristin Brooks Hope Center. No amount is too small.*
*Um. Update. $10 is the minimum donation. Whoops.
The Kristin Brooks Hope Center operates a service called IMAlive. It’s the first online crisis chat center — a place where people in dire need can get instant help from trained volunteers. It’s not a cure-all; it’s first aid that can help someone get to more lasting assistance.
While anyone can use the IMAlive service, it may be particularly useful for young people.
Young people are especially vulnerable to depression and suicidal. More than 1 in 10 young people in the US have a depressive disorder. Depression can lead to distorted thought patterns and suicidal thoughts and behaviours. But the good news is that treatments and support are out there that can help young people deal with their depression.
Suicide is a major problem. In the United States and Canada, it’s the tenth most frequent cause of death, and for the young people, it’s the third most frequent in the US and the second most frequent in Canada.
Each suicide is a tragedy, robbing the world of human potential, and leaving lasting scars on those left behind.intervention is a gift to someone in crisis and everyone who cares for them.
And every suicide prevented by an intervention is a gift to someone in crisis and everyone who cares for them.
Who Are These “Team Jacob” People?
Team Jacob is a group of people touched by the loss of Jacob Weiskopf of Sudbury, Massachusetts. (http://www.rememberingjacob.com/). The picture to the right is the cropped from the only one I have of him. I didn’t get the chance to know him well, just visited his family often enough to know he was a spectacular young man with a bright future.
You hear that phrase all the time, that someone young who passed had a bright future, but I assure you, his picture is in the dictionary next to the term.
We’re participating because we want to help keep young people like Jacob around as long as we possibly can.
Your donation can help IMAlive reach that goal. Do it. Click here to donate now – September 8 through 14 is National Suicide Prevention Week in the US.
Anyone can become clinically depressed, and the one thing the people I have lost and almost lost to suicide have one thing in common – I never thought in a million years that they would be the ones. You may think you don’t know someone who would do that, or that all the people you know never would, or that you could never be in that much pain.
But here’s the thing.
You don’t know. No one does. What we do know is that intervention helps. Life is too precious, too short, for us not to intervene if we can. If you can’t donate yourself, please share one of the following posts with someone who can.
More posts from #TeamJacob:
- Suicide Prevention and Depression: Join Team Jacob – http://mindthegappr.com/2013/09/suicide-prevention-and-depression-join-team-jacob/
- Help Team Jacob in IMAlive suicide prevention fundraiser- http://www.translucid.ca/site/2013/09/08/off-topic-help-team-jacob-in-imalive-suicide-prevention-fundraiser/
- Suicide’s not an alternative. https://medium.com/lessons-learned-1/e767f5b516d0
- Send them an angel. http://flashfree.me/2013/09/10/send-them-an-angel-imalive-suicide-prevention/
- Remembering Jacob Weiskopf – a personal post for NSPW. -http://dannybrown.me/2013/09/10/remembering-jacob-weiskopf-a-personal-post-for-national-suicide-prevention-week/
- How You Can Save A Life. Today. http://www.v3im.com/2013/09/how-you-can-save-a-life-today/